There are some absolutely necessary, necessary for a date. Although we all know these things, us guys, and it is always important to remember the basics, so we can get the right foundation. Here's our short list:
Bathe
Obvious, right? The worst thing you can do when you go on a date (especially if it's the first day with him) is an up unshaven, looking dirty and smelled bad. The women are clean and will judge you on how hygienic you are. Also, no offense, but you would be shocked if he turned up to show the date of hippies, who had not bathed for some time. It costs nothing to take a bath and do the job. Remember, bad breath and body odor is immediately arrested, and he assumes that you have all this time. Even if you're just a bad day or do not think you have time to clean, you do not see in their appearance, so you'll never get another chance to impress.
Arrive on time
One of the worst things you can do is be late. Implementation end will give a false impression of what you think of her. Women always assume the worst, if she wants to sit around considering the worst case when you're late. Not only does she think she was raised, but also think you are unreliable. If you're picking her up at her home, so it is advisable to turn up 5 minutes before you are due. But do not get past it or adjust it up or dress and do not want to see half-finished.
Be Gentleman
Keep the door open for her. Have them walk through the first door. Pull the chair. Be kind to her and those around you. Women love to feel special and treat her like a lady, she will think you're fantastic.
Praise Him
The first thing to say is "you're beautiful", even before asking how it is. Keep the compliments flowing throughout your date, as "the hair is very pretty, I like the color of it, and his team is great." But do not go too far. A woman likes to be congratulated, because they feel sexy, beautiful, beautiful. She needs to feel that you're attracted to her. Therefore, do not ring true.
Listen and ask questions
Nobody wants to spend all night listening to a talk about himself or be ignored. And you need to get to know each other. Then ask him questions, but mostly listen to what she has to say. There is nothing a woman likes than when someone is interested in what they say.
I remember one time I sat in a restaurant waiting for friends. There was a man and a woman sitting at the table next to mine, and I could not help overhearing their conversation, although this is not a conversation if one person speaks. I could tell it was their first date he told her himself. "I play league football Saturday, I like boxing ..." It went on for about 10 minutes without stopping and without asking questions. She was just sitting and nodding slightly at times and bored. The day has left an impact on me and whenever I was on a date, then I was aware of the woman who made a point to take an interest in what she had to say. This is probably the best piece of advice I can give.
Prepare
The last thing you want to sit at the table and the conversation dries up, leaving you tired of each other the rest of the evening. Think about the date and what you would like to know him, and in return what you would like to know him. Try to think of questions he might ask, so you can prepare for the match. You think it's easy to speak, and that does not run out of the question, or you have an automatic response. But first we are and the situation is, you have no idea what it's like. You can avoid this meeting, after a quick drink to go see a movie, so you have something obvious to talk about.
Who will pay?
This is a very difficult question, since women are more independent and may prefer to pay their way. I suggest that you offer to pay, and if he gives you, take care bill. If you want to pay, one could argue that you want, but be sure to pay at least half no matter what.
The Kiss Goodnight
Some women prefer not to kiss after a date, while others are disappointed if the guy did not even try. There is no easy solution to this issue. Wait until it is the first step, or it is obvious that you are both ready. Attention to body language and little touches. And I strongly advise against sex on the first date.
I'll Call You
Just tell him that you call if you believe it and thought of her again. It's a delicate situation, and most of the time, the simplest solution is to take your number and tell her you will call. But do not worry if you're not interested. Suffice it to say good night, smile and walk away. But if you like and are interested, be sure to let him know and tell him you'll be in touch.
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